Are we all so stupid?

No, not really… I have been coaching for over a decade many brilliant people, actually, many admirably intelligent ones…

But see, often intelligence is mechanical. Our minds are very programmatic.

So, if it’s not a matter of intelligence, then are we so self-destructive to take missteps in our lives that leave us to never-ending dissatisfaction? Is that how we have been programmed?

Well, that’s the beginning of a very interesting conversation… And I will be happy to engage in it with you as you have your 1on1 with me (yes, you can book it free of charge, if you are interested in this work – you can schedule it here).

Meanwhile, let’s just be mesmerised by the work of “God” (if that’s the baseline for your conception of the universe) or the masterpiece created by evolutionary processes…There is a method to creation’s madness… The trick is to reverse-engineer it, understand the fundamental principles of Life, get to know the patterns of your mind and its effect on EVERYTHING… yes, everything…

So, is life that pragmatic? Not at all… Actually, the challenge of the human mind is in that our decisions are rarely pragmatic, even if they look as such on the surface. Remember, people don’t make decisions rationally. People make decisions emotionally… period. Again, we make decisions emotionally and justify them rationally…

So, the intelligent mind can create all sorts of justifications for non-optimal decisions, and those justifications can be so well constructed that even you will believe in them. But it’s make-believe, which has nothing to do with the truth.

The truth is – you, as we all, are driven by our desires and aversions, perceived needs (read, mainly preferences), and fears. You are reactive and compulsive, as we all are. Some more, some less.

The fact that we are making our decisions emotionally will NEVER CHANGE.

What will change, especially after you and I have done some inner work together, is your ability to understand the nature of your emotions, desires, separate needs from preferences, see how your desires and fears are formed and how they get in the way of optimal decisions and actions.

By understanding your emotional world that is fueled by the work of your mind, we can redirect, reframe and restructure your decision-making process by altering your emotional reality

Why is this work so important to me?

See, I lived so many lives, one might say. I experienced many more dramas one can squeeze in one life. 😉

I watched my body, and “soul” died many times. And my being kept choosing Life… To choose life under many circumstances I found myself in, I needed to understand life – to understand it, I needed to dissect it… Like a scientist, like a Buddha… No, I am not a Buddhist. I am not any “ist.” I just happened to have a similar journey to the one a man later called Buddha had ☺ Similar in the aspects of “self” and “beyond self” discovery…

To understand life, you need to break it down to the tiniest expressions till they all disappear…. And for a while, they did… And then you see human life from the eagle view… You see the dance, the arising and subsiding of individual lives and all manifested life forms and then you can, as if with a microscope, tune in on each individual life, the one that you call “mine” and all the other lives, those you by a habit called “lives of others”…

But this microscope can easily work on moving targets – you focus on a particular area of life and see discord, conflicts, misbalance. You see aspects of a life that are not optimal… And then… then you optimize it… Or help another to optimize it…It seems, somehow, it became the “purpose” of my life, well, let’s just say, a significant period of my life…

I played with many vocations – I created products, built businesses, mastered various art disciplines, managed “departments,” “compartments,” people in workspaces… And then, I just focused on one person at a time, one personal journey at a time… I became, what became popular to call such work – a coach…

Considering all aspects of work I did, some would call me a business coach, as that’s what needed to be optimized for them… Some – relationship coach, as that’s the areas that suffered from misbalance for those people, some – career coach, some – money coach, some – spiritual coach, some – … well, you got the drill…

Whatever name one gives to my work is partial, as life is 360 degree… So is my work… So, for the simplicity and your easy digestion of the work… let’s just call me – Life Optimization Coach… (Your life includes your business, the work is not exclusive or isolated).

I will still keep the word “coach,” as alternatives just don’t seem optimal… Guru? No way! Teacher? Nah – it’s not so much about teaching, more like facilitating the learning and self-discovery process… Expert? Nah – it’s not about my expertise, but about intuition (intuition means rapid pattern recognition and rapid prediction of most probable outcomes)… so, yes, intuitive recognition of areas in which one’s life is not optimal and leads to misery.

So, my job is to help you see what I see about your life, help you understand yourself and patterns that shape your life, and then… yes, precisely – reshape it… So THEN you can live an optimal life… and how will you know it? Easy breezy – you will stop feeling dissatisfaction, all notes in your life will be aligned to serve a magnificent orchestra, intuned with the intention of the creation… You will be healthier, happier, fulfilled, feel loved and loving… Live in joy and share joy… So, ready for your life optimization, and then your business optimization?

Let’s talk, yes, it’s on the house.

Let’s see where your life is not optimal… and then you can optimize it by yourself or engage with me to help you see what you cannot see… Even Lamborghini drivers have blind spots… Well, but that’s if they drive alone… if they are alone… But you don’t have to be…

As per METHODS…

…since people get so stuck in “first tell me how” (not optimal)… But for the sake of being compassionate to your habits, 😉 I created a “system” to optimize one’s emotional and physical representations. It’s a very healing sequence of processes; you can call it a body/mind healing modality that allows us to later optimize your external by first optimizing your internal processes (emotional reactions, unproductive and painful thoughts, beliefs that hold you back, errors of perception, etc.). You are welcome to check it out.

But don’t get lost in your research, as it will breed many false assumptions. Let’s talk instead. Just schedule a call and as you are doing so, fill in a quick checklist that comes as step 2 after you selected a convenient time on my calendar below.

HONESTLY, for yourself, answer all questions – on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 is the highest level of satisfaction), how would you rate various aspects of your life?

– it will take you 30 seconds… Ready?

Now, if you have been honest with yourself and didn’t exercise

patterns of denial, you live an optimal life only if for all questions, your answers are 10. Obviously, if any of your answers are less than 10 (maximum satisfaction), your life is not optimal.

You can’t argue with it, can you? 😉

Now, the question, of course, is, what are you going to do about it? Are you going to do what you have been doing till now – denying, justifying, and finding excuses for why it’s ok to live at 5, 6, 7, 8, or even 9 out of 10? Or are you going to step outside of the bars of the prison you created for yourself (as we all do) and face honestly the fact that some areas of your life need change?

Maybe you don’t know yet what needs to be done, and how you will do it, but take at least the first step – make a decision to do what it takes to optimize your life. And if you are ready, to be honest with yourself, stop pouting, blaming, and complaining, and instead get ready to endeavor on a journey of discovering your self-lies and avoidances, and changing your inner dynamics… and then changing your environment to meet your needs and desires… then, let’s talk…

Book your complimentary session with me today. And let’s optimize the heck out of your life.